Among her first assignments, she has to write a short essay on the challenges of the adult college student.
I helped her proof the essay. While helping her, all the challenges she mentions have now become apparent in our personal lives:
Hefty student loans.
She's nervous as hell and constantly doubting herself.
No personal time for herself.
No time with family (meaning, me and the kids).
That last one translates into me having to handle the kids a whole lot more on my own. Cooking and cleaning is something I always try to help with, but now I will practically become a single dad for a few months while my wife studies for school.
The kids hate it when I cook. Hardly have I seen my kids scowl so hard. Especially my son.
Despite all of this, my wife's endeavors are completely worthwhile if she sees them through to completion. She's got what it takes.
Now, if she would only recognize that herself and embrace that, she'd realize that everything will be fine on her first day back to school.
Even if I do have to find something to cook tonight.
